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12 September 2018

Our Pregnancy Diary | Weeks 16-20 and Gender Reveal!





Week 16

Baby is the size of an Avocado

Week 16 has been the most exciting week! We had our second midwife appointment mid-week, where we got to hear our little babes heartbeat for the first time. It was such a special moment that I won't ever forget. We went through my various blood results and booked me in for my next appointment at 25 weeks, which at the minute seems so far away.

We then had our private gender scan booked for the Saturday at 10am. Our little squidge has a habit of turning their back to us whenever we have a scan, so we can't get a good look! When we first went in and started the scan they were in the exact same position, and I thought oh no we're not going to be able to find out! Luckily after turning on my side for a few minutes baby decided to move and we got a very good look at HIM. If you follow me on other social media platforms you will have already seen, but our gorgeous little one is a beautiful Baby Boy! We even got to see him briefly in 4D which was incredible, he was still being shy though and had his hands up to his face. There's something so nice about finally being able to call baby Him, instead of it!

I had been holding off doing any shopping until this point, one because I wanted to wait and make sure everything was progressing as it should, and two I wanted to know what section to shop in!! I will admit though, I'm not a huge fan of just blue for boys, pink for girls. So as soon as the scan was done, we headed out to shop. As we were at Mothercare already, we started there. We then moved on to Next, which I didn't find too much in, and finally Mama's and Papa's which we spent so, so much in. I loved all the new season collection - lots of mustard and woodland themed cuteness! It's fair to say he will have a better wardrobe than us.



Week 17

Baby is the size of an Onion

Week 17 started with a horrible cold, which I spent most of my time sofa bound with hot water and lemon. I started to feel better by mid week which was good as i'm still so tired! I'm waiting for this endless energy of the second trimester that I've heard people talk about, and the 'glow', the only glow I've had so far is the pool of sweat that forms as soon as I get up thanks to this heatwave!

We did manage to pop out for a nice stroll at the weekend to Calke Abbey, followed by a scrumptious Sunday Lunch for me. Considering the weather was in the high 20's, I call that a success! We also bought a few more baby clothes, I am a woman drawn to the baby aisle wherever we go. In reality I could do with purchasing a few new bits for myself, as my favourite skinny jeans are definitely becoming a bit too tight now. Though I've found the in-store maternity selection a little lack lustre, everywhere seems to only sell it online, which is pretty useless when I'm not sure what size I will need!


Week 18

Baby is the size of a Sweet Potato


I felt little squidge move for the first time on Tuesday 7th, I had been wondering if I'd felt him move before this, but there was no mistaking the two consecutive jabs I got in my lower abdomen!




Week 19

Baby is the size of a Mango

This week the movements really ramped up, and now I can definitely tell when its Little Hart wiggling about in there.
We have been making plans this week on what we need to get done in the house, what we need to buy and everything else that comes with growing a little human. I've been busy dreaming up what I want the nursery to look like, and can't wait to get started on it. The trouble is, as we have a 3 bed house for just 2 of us we ended up using the second room as storage for all the things that don't have a home, or things we don't even use! So before I can get on with all the nice parts of decorating the nursery, I have to get through some serious de-cluttering!

Week 20

We made it to our 20 week scan! It's the one I had been most anxious about, but also the most excited for. We got to see our little one's button nose, tiny toes and lips. It was such an incredible scan and I was amazed at how in detail they could monitor baby's growth. He was wriggling away on the day too and when he stretched both arms up I could feel it! The difference between the 12 week scan and the 20 week scan is incredible, he no longer fits onto the screen and my app is telling me that he is now the size of a large carrot! The app also tells me that baby has taste buds now which definitely makes me more conscious about what I'm eating as I've been really craving spicy food! We still haven't bought any large items as we are waiting to get the house in order first., though we've booked ourselves onto the Mamas and Papas Parents to Be event at the end of September, which I'm hoping is when we will buy our pram.
 We have just finished painting our downstairs bathroom and are now moving onto clearing our bedroom, as that's where he is sleeping first. Not sure it was our greatest idea to do up most of the house whilst being over half way through this pregnancy, but I will keep you posted on how we get on! I need to create more storage for all our things, to make room for all Baby's things, wish me luck!


Here's to the next 20 weeks!







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24 July 2018

Our Pregnancy Diary | The First Trimester




As I sit typing this, I still can't believe that I'm already into my second trimester. It seems like both a life time and a blink of an eye ago that I saw those 2 pink lines, and felt the first bubbles of excitement (and nerves). I wanted to document these special moments, even if it's only me and my husband who reads them.



Shhh!




I think the hardest part of the first 12 weeks is keeping it a secret. To not be able to tell people that you feel like you just want to sleep for 24 hours straight, or that you're not intentionally (ok you are, but you catch my drift!) avoiding social gatherings involving alcohol is quite the challenge! I really wanted to tell the world as soon as we found out, but the worrier in me also was frightened of all the things that could go wrong (I still am to be honest).


Sickness

I'm not going to complain too much about sickness, as in all honesty, I've probably had what some would say is an easy ride. I didn't have any sickness until after 9 weeks, and even then it was mostly in the evenings. I would be fine all day at work, maybe the odd wave of nausea just before and after eating, then feel worse as the afternoon went on. Luckily for me, I would just go to bed early, which did help a lot. The hot weather has made the sickness feeling flare up again recently though, and I'm finding it difficult to keep cool!




Sleeping

I have slept a lot. A lot a lot a lot. I have been the nap queen. I haven't napped so much since when I was at university and I would always schedule an afternoon nap. I've really felt the effects of exhaustion on a whole other level. I used to hear others talk about the tiredness, and would think how bad can it really be? Well now I understand. I'm starting to feel a bit better now I'm into my second trimester (but I do still want a nap now and again). The first trimester though, I could easily nap for a few hours and then go to bed at 10pm again. I'm very fortunate my husband has helped out a lot, doing the food shop on his own and sorting dinner etc just so I can sleep.



Food

For most of the first trimester I really lost my appetite, and it's only just starting to rear it's head a little now. The thought of food turned my stomach, and I could just about manage to eat a sandwich. I haven't really had any cravings either, instead I've found I just want plain things, like ready salted crisps. Not the most healthy option, but needs must.

Early Scan




The wait for the 12 week mark just seemed like such a long way off, and I was already feeling very anxious, so we decided to take the plunge and book an early scan. We chose Mother Care Baby Bond, and I have to say I was hugely impressed with them. They made me feel really at ease and relaxed, and it was a lovely moment to see our tiny little dot there on the screen. I was around 7 weeks pregnant at that time, so there wasn't a whole lot the technician could tell us, but we did see our little ones heart beating away. That was comfort enough. They aren't the cheapest of things, ours cost £89, but I did feel a weight lifted off my shoulders to know that the baby was indeed there, and matched up to what we thought we were date wise.



What I've been buying 

I didn't buy much at all in the first trimester. I picked up some of the Pregnacare Vitamins to try and get some of the goodness into what was a very bland diet. I also picked up Clemmie's 'How to grow a baby and push it out' book, and I have to say I really love it! Definitely would recommend if you're looking for some witty yet informative pregnancy reading.




So there we have it, my first trimester summed up- night time nausea, nap queen and ready salted crisp fiend. I hope you've enjoyed a little peak into my experience of the first trimester. I'm so excited to be in to the second, and very much looking forward to gaining some much needed energy back!


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10 July 2018

We're Having a Baby!




You may (or may not) have noticed that I've been a little quiet around these parts for the past few months, but it is all for good reason....we're having a baby! Our little Baby Hart is due in January.

If you follow me on Instagram, you will probably have already seen our big news, but it feels so good to finally be able to share it with our nearest and dearest. I can stop worrying about being invited out for drinks, as everyone who knows me, knows I love a gin and I'm sure it would have eventually roused suspicion if I suddenly started passing it up!

We found out we were expecting our little squidge on 4th May. It was actually a little comical looking back, as I wasn't expecting it to be our month and only took the test as I was due to start my period. I was hurryingly getting ready for work, so left it in the bathroom and carried on pottering about. It was actually my husband who alerted me to the fact that the test was positive, and I even brushed him off by saying 'there has to be two lines you know' but sure enough he was right, there they were, two pink lines.

With not much time to let the news sink in I had to set off to work, full of a bundle of emotions, and in fact a little disbelief! So much so that I went out and bought two more tests, just to be extra certain. Each one came back with the same two lines.


We decided to wait until we had our twelve week scan before sharing our news, as I'm very much a worrier by nature. Though let's be honest does the worrying ever stop now?!

I'm currently just over 14 weeks pregnant and so excited to continue on this journey, growing teeny Baby Hart. I can't wait to share this next chapter of our lives.


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